Well, here is the short version of what has brought us to where we are now!
In April of 2012, Shane felt called to look into moving closer to home. We were quite happy and content in small town Iowa, had an incredible church and community of people we 'did life' with, and were happy to be raising our family there. But Shane felt God leading us closer to family and to where we grew up, so after a little job searching, some interviews and a couple of offers, with God's leading, Shane accepted a new job in Nebraska. He moved in June and the girls and I followed in mid-July. During this time, we put our first house on the market and waited for an offer, which came in August and we closed in September.
The first 4 months in our new city, we spent living in temp housing provided by Shane's new company...which happened to be a hotel with a small kitchenette. Thankfully, it had 2 bedrooms and 2 bathrooms, as well as, all the other accommodations found at a hotel, i.e. pool, hot tub, maid service, free breakfast, afternoon appetizers and unlimited coffee (not just coffee, but really good coffee). I never drank coffee, but after my stent at the hotel, I now enjoy a warm cup about every day, after hunting down the coffee that was served at the hotel, of course!
It would be dishonest to say that I was thrilled about moving. I wasn't looking forward at all to moving to a larger city and its traffic, and I had so many people I was leaving in our old town that I deeply miss, and hate not being a part of their everyday lives. The girls had incredible friends that would have been such a blessing to grow up with. Not to mention, that I find it hard to make friends and tend to shy away from social settings, so I wasn't looking forward to 'starting' that process all over again! Ha! Plus, we had an incredible church that we would miss! I guess I am trying to say, that I never could have been strong enough to make the decision to leave on my own, so I know what a hard decision it was for Shane, because it was left up to him to discern God's will for our family as the leader of our house.
We spent several months house hunting, seeing in the range of 70+ houses, also while kinda pursuing what it would cost to build in a newer development that we fell in love with. Unfortunately to build, was more than what we wanted to spend. We decided to give house hunting our best shot, and if we didn't find anything then we would rent and go from there. Well, needless to say, we didn't find a house to buy. So we began digging more into building and crunched the numbers. We knew that was the neighborhood we wanted to be in long term, so if we did buy a house it would only be for a short while. With the relocation package Shane's new job offered (they paid closing costs on house we sold, and on new house we buy/build), it didn't make financial sense to wait to build, especially with as low as interest rates are.
The development was more than we could have hoped for. It was the perfect location for us, nestled just on the outskirts of town, but close enough for Shane to still come home for lunch from either of the locations he works out of (all the other possible locations we looked at didn't offer that). It was also just 5 minutes from Shane's sister (the other locations would have put us 20 minutes away). The development is also like its own little community and offers a unique downtown area and a brand new grocery store, which will only be a 3 minute drive from my new house! There is also a YMCA and Middle School just a few blocks away. But what is most unique about this development is the houses!!! All houses are made up of 4 styles (arts & crafts, colonial, tudor and prairie). No house can look exactly alike on the same street, nor carry the same color scheme. Garages are also to be set back from the front (as opposed to most new developments the garage is the first thing you see!). There is even an area in the development that the garages all sit directly behind the house and have alley access. It is such a neat neighborhood...it looks like one you would have drove down 100 years ago! It embodies all the things we love architecturally about houses.
After much prayer, talking it over and over, and more prayer, we knew God was
leading us down the road to building this house. He has been surprising
us throughout this whole journey! Honestly, God whispered to my heart
back in April, before we even decided to move, that we were going to
build a house. I remember laughing, thinking that was crazy because I
didn't see how that was even remotely possible, let alone I didn't want to move! And then the first time we drove
through our new neighborhood, just dreaming about it, I knew that was
where God was calling us. Then the first time we toured a house that our
builder had just finished for someone else in the neighborhood, I knew that it was it. All the house hunting we did, was God just closing every other door.
It was a hard decision to make tho for Shane and I in that we are pretty conservative when it comes to what we spend our money on. This house is not a need, I didn't even ask for it. Honestly, I felt guilty even praying about it alot of the time. There is alot we could do to further God's kingdom if we didn't spend this much on a house...but then God reminded me, He doesn't NEED that money, He is God and His will will be done.
Why did God choose to bless us this way? I am not sure, other than He loves us. It has been a blessing to Shane and I's relationship, we have been able to dream together, grow together and enjoy being together as we go through this process.
How will we be able to bless others with this house and bring glory to God? That is what is exciting...we will soon find out!